Thots and Perspectives: A Swinger Lifestyle Podcast

We’re a two-physician couple in the swinger lifestyle and we’d like to share with you our perspectives on lifestyle-related topics. Please join us!
We’re a two-physician couple in the swinger lifestyle and we’d like to share with you our perspectives on lifestyle-related topics. Please join us!
Episodes
Episodes
Saturday Jan 24, 2026
Episode 28: Maybe Not Same-Room, Maybe Not Full-swap
Saturday Jan 24, 2026
Saturday Jan 24, 2026
Kae and Ben discuss their lifestyle experiences that were not in the same room and (unexpectedly) not full swap.
Friday Nov 28, 2025
Episode 27: Intimacy and Aftercare, Bliss November 2025 Recap
Friday Nov 28, 2025
Friday Nov 28, 2025
Ben and Kae recount their wildest Bliss Cruise yet — spontaneous meetups, multiple orgies, surprise booty calls, and unexpected run-ins on a trip that pushed their boundaries and blew their minds.
They also discuss intimacy and aftercare, how partners manage differing needs, clear communication, enthusiastic consent, and practical tips for navigating emotion and expectations in the lifestyle.
Friday Oct 31, 2025
Episode #26: Reddit QnA #4
Friday Oct 31, 2025
Friday Oct 31, 2025
Ben and Kae discuss their thoughts and a variety of lifestyle issues found on r/swingers.
Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Episode 25: Fun with Friends
Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Ben and Kae reflect on going to a Nudist Colony and a House Party.
Friday Jul 18, 2025
Episode 24: Club Privata
Friday Jul 18, 2025
Friday Jul 18, 2025
Ben and Kae make the trip to Portland to visit Privata and discuss the club scene.
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Episode 23: April 2025 Bliss Cruise Recap
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Ben and Kae recap their eventful April 2025 Bliss Cruise.
Friday Aug 30, 2024
Episode 22: Dirty Vegas and An Ask Reddit Question
Friday Aug 30, 2024
Friday Aug 30, 2024
Ben & Kae discuss their visit to Dirty Vegas this is year and a Reddit question about a husband who does not like seeing his wife with other men.
Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Episode 21: Sailing the High Seas
Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Ben and Kae reflect on their experiences on the April 2024 Bliss Cruise.



